Common Intimacy Issues for Both Men & Women

Common Intimacy Issues for Both Men & Women

Marriage has a lot of perks. I have a lifetime travel companion (we’re big into adventure). There’s always someone to share day to day life and responsibilities with. There’s love and trust and safety and a plethora of qualities in your spouse that help complete and...
What it takes to be a successful couple.

What it takes to be a successful couple.

Do you remember the Magic 8 Ball? Ask a yes or no question, shake the ball, turn it upside down, and ta-da, there’s your answer – “All signs point to yes” or “Don’t count on it.”   Wouldn’t it be great if we had an accurate Magic 8 Ball to answer all kinds of...
How Family of Origin Impacts Your Marriage

How Family of Origin Impacts Your Marriage

I’ve mentioned before that my neighbors are big into gardening. While I don’t have a green thumb myself (more like a black one…that kills plants), I’ve learned a few things from talking to them. Like, did you know that the color of some flowers can differ based...
When Conflicts Arise (And They Will)

When Conflicts Arise (And They Will)

I read something interesting recently on the behavior of animals. Apparently, when two goat meet on a narrow pathway, they don’t know how to handle the situation. Most often they will either just stand there until someone or something comes along to help one of them...
The Big Threat to Your Relationship: Apathy

The Big Threat to Your Relationship: Apathy

I’ve sat across from many angry people as they blasted their mates. I’ve heard yelling and screaming and sometimes cursing. While I do not promote this as any type of healthy communication (it’s certainly not), I am actually encouraged by the fighting between many...
Social Media: A Gateway to Emotional Affairs?

Social Media: A Gateway to Emotional Affairs?

We’ve never been more connected to other people than we are today. With the touch of a button we can chat or video with people all over the globe. There are countless apps and websites to give us immediate access to photos, videos, calls, and messaging with other...
Marriage isn’t 50/50

Marriage isn’t 50/50

“That’s not fair!”  How many times have you heard someone say that? It’s usually an emphatic statement made out of frustration when someone felt a situation didn’t get handled evenly and justly. I hear people frequently say how they want a relationship where...